How to avoid problems
It's possible to avoid problems in your life? This is surely what you want the most, you saying no problems so the total happiness! For many of you , you take the path of avoidance seeking the highest level of security. The security offered by the space is to avoid , first all the problems . I do not address in this article the problematic aspect of your organizational life , but much more than your growth, your inner life.
Homeland Security does not exist and stop the search as many do in the organization of their lives. Inner peace would be more appropriate term as that of Homeland Security . "Total security exists when there is absolutely nothing , that is to say nothing that is created by thought. "
In the world of positive thinking, it is commonly said that adversity is a sign of growth, developments happy to come for those who manage to get through adversity. Adversity , problems or crises experienced by each of you are in fact the movement of life that calls you to yourselves . This movement of life is nothing other than what happens in you through what is a moment in you.
The range of problems is caused by a notion of time and a misalignment of what you are. Then fear sets in you gradually over time to solve your problem , your crisis. As you can not escape the problems of life , because they are part of your evolution to be, you should look at the facts of the problem by returning to yourselves and not to others and even less to impotence and resignation face the fact . "Every man who has problems is a prisoner of time . When you think of the weather problem, you move away from it. But that is precisely the problem. "
The biggest factors that paralyze you before the problem is fear. This fear of not responding or not position yourself properly to the problem, the fear of losing something , fear to adapt . This fear can even cause you to want , to desire to escape or run away from it . Remember that any inappropriate behavior, unresolved come back into your life in a new facet with the same message. " It is only when you want to escape the situation that neurotic disorders appear. " This is the unbearable fear that drives many people to seek professional psychology.
Or , if you know that you can not avoid problems , how, then prevent these long assail you risk losing some operational or organizational effectiveness ? It is too easy to say that we solve the problem as soon as it appears because I do not speak to you outside of a problem, but what is happening within you. At first , we must recognize this problem and distinguish fact and your own emotions and let you speak in feeling that you created in the disturbing emotion many times causing discomfort . This is an observation of the felt in silence, absence of thought, you 'll be able to listen to the message of the problem. This message is not necessarily delivered within a minute of the onset of the problem. You just need to give you the space and time to feel . This action will eliminate the fear that you might install . "If we must be free of fear, one must be free time. If there was no time , there would be no fear . "
Freedom of time causes you to release the past and the future in the process of recognition of the problem and the observation of the message. This is to avoid refer to what was or what will be. Because fear arises from the past or the future and you can breathe in great insecurity . Krishnamurti often noted in his writings that fear comes from the desire for security or losing said security you think you have . As there is nothing permanent in life, there is no possible security.
There is the presence of problems in your life only if you are not present to yourself , what is , what is happening to the here and now. Be in the present, be in touch with your feelings and be aligned with what you really are , you will see the problem as a measure of reorientation of your life or realignment of what you are in relation to what you feel what is in you.
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